VagabonTribe wrote: Most teachers I've dealt with, while cordial and welcoming, were not truly interested in teaching anyone the true secrets of the djembe. Learning the basics of the instrument and phrasing, is drastically different than truly learning the real djembe: how to truly achieve multiple sounds, specific phrasing techniques at various tempos, the real phrases for different variations. Most of what any of us get is a watered down version for the masses.
the kid wrote:On average how many years does a traditional djembe fola be playing before they begin to solo at ceremonies etc?
I'm thinkin it takes years to get to that standard
rachelnguyen wrote:I think building a deep relationship of trust is at the heart of this. I have been studying with my teacher for nearly three years (I am a baby, I know....) and know exactly when he is teaching me something that he feels protective of. (Sometimes he will actually tell me not to share it.)
I can't say whether my sex has anything to do with this at all. But I do know that if I am to get any depth, it is going to take years.
rachelnguyen wrote:Building a teacher/student relationship takes a lot of time to develop the level of intimacy you need for that trust to flourish. It makes me wonder if it is possible for a woman to study with a man that way in Mali? I honestly don't know much about relationships in Mali.... Would a married woman be able to spend that much time with a man who isn't her husband? And would a Malian husband put up with her neglecting the household in order to do it? I definitely neglect the housework and cooking to be able to study, LOL. My dear husband puts up with all kinds of stuff. Even going so far as to give me his blessings for my trip to Mali.
Which makes me a lucky djembefolette, indeed.
rachelnguyen wrote:It makes me wonder if it is possible for a woman to study with a man that way in Mali? I honestly don't know much about relationships in Mali.... Would a married woman be able to spend that much time with a man who isn't her husband?
And would a Malian husband put up with her neglecting the household in order to do it? I definitely neglect the housework and cooking to be able to study, LOL. My dear husband puts up with all kinds of stuff. Even going so far as to give me his blessings for my trip to Mali.
michi@triodia.com wrote: rachelnguyen wrote:It makes me wonder if it is possible for a woman to study with a man that way in Mali? I honestly don't know much about relationships in Mali.... Would a married woman be able to spend that much time with a man who isn't her husband?
I suspect that it would be very much an individual matter, just as it is here in Australia. It really depends more on the partner than the country. (Having said that, I wouldn't be surprised to learn that in Mali, a mostly Islamic country, things would more strict than in the west.)
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